Ask to describe the time they had fallen deeply in love, many men record an exciting experience. Many men even described symptoms of heartache when in love. Some men mentioned that they didn?t like the feeling of being out of control when in love. Some men even held themselves back from falling in love. In fact most men said they preferred a daily love relationship to be in love. Some described love that they had felt when very young with the great feeling of distress; others moaned the loss of romantic love in marriage. Men?s first feelings of falling in love were as joyous and exciting as women?s but after there initial happiness most backed off and distrusted the very feelings that have given them such pleasure. Men are chained at early age too distrust emotions , men distrust the vulnerability of loves feelings so much that the majority of marriages are not based on love. Most of the men did not marry the women they had been most in love with although they emphasize that they love there wife so much to leave them.